Usually these Resolutions contain many common
points cutting across age, sex, and nationality.
So, what are these 10 top New Year resolutions
or 10 best or most popular New Year resolutions?
Based on various 10 great New Year Resolutions
and my own view-point and philosophy of life and universe, I would recommend
these 10 top New Year resolutions regarding the higher values of life:
1. RESOLVE TO BE HAPPY!: If we consider deeply
the aim of human life is to Be Happy! God created the world, and human beings
added many things for people to Be Happy! Even when we go through hardships for
some aim that also is a sort of happiness. Nirvana, Moksha, Liberation, are
noting but eternal and permanent happiness. This includes such resolutions as
enjoying life more, traveling, having more quality time with your family and
friends, etc.
2. RESOLVE TO BE HEALTHY!: To enjoy this
happiness we must be healthy. Here health is defined in its wider mental,
physical, spiritual, and social, etc. context. We cannot Be Happy! without
healthy body and mind. In fact, we cannot Be Successful! also without health.
This includes all your resolutions like reducing fat, being less stressed,
joining a gym, etc.
3. RESOLVE TO BE SUCCESSFUL!: Life is
incomplete without realizing your full potential and being successful. However,
the definition of success may vary from individual to individual. Whatever your
definition is, you must resolve to be successful in life. Success is great
tonic for happiness and health. This includes your resolution to earn more
money, set up a new business, time management, and organizing oneself.
4. RESOLVE TO EMPOWER OTHERS TO BE HAPPY! BE
HEALTHY! AND BE SUCCESSFUL!: No person is an island. One does not live for
himself or herself. One cannot be happy without others around being happy. If
one is happy, healthy, and successful, it is also because of the family and
society at large. It is our moral duty and debt to make others also realize the
goals of happiness, health, and success. This includes doing charitable work.
5. RESOLVE TO EMBRACE CHANGE: New Year
resolutions are all about change. If you are not ready to change why
resolutions? Change yourself, change your environment, if necessary, and change
your relationships. Don't be afraid of change. Change your routines, change
your habits, change your working habits (organize workplace and home), if
necessary, change your job, your priorities, and the way you have been living.
This includes learning something new, being tech savvy (utilizing full
potential of computer, internet, social media, emails, mobile phones, etc.)
6. RESOLVE TO BE ADDICTED TO, OBSESSED WITH,
POSSESSD BY YOUR TOP PRIORITY RESOLUTION: This is a must for success of New
Year Resolutions. Be in touch with them constantly. Write them down, read them
often, substitute your morning and bed time prayer and meditation by praying to
God for realizing them and meditation on them. Review constantly and revise, if
need be. Above all don't abandon them if forgotten for some time. There are
many New Year days in a year (various religions and nations have their own New
Year days). Utilize them and festival holidays to review your New Year
resolutions.
7. RESOLVE TO DO BETTER TIME MANAGEMENT: The
key to success is hard work and working more time than others. However, time is
limited and distributed equally to all (so that in a competitive situation all
have equal time allotted). Better time management can give us the required edge
over others. Organize and better manage time. Generally, one can save much time
by limiting or altogether eliminating time spent in reading newspapers, seeing
TV, or surfing internet. Organize your work space, computer, etc. Even organize
your thoughts.
8. RESOLVE TO SET YOUR PRIORITIES AND ACT ON
THEM: Even after making our New Year Resolutions, we fail to implement them
because we don't find time to do them! If I have made writing a novel my top
New Year Resolution, I may be so much busy with other things that I may not
even start writing!
9. RESOLVE TO PERIODICALLY REVIEW NEW YEAR
RESOLUTIONS AND CHECK PROGRESS MADE: Our New Year Resolutions may be too
ambitious. A few weeks into the year and we will realize what is possible and
what not. We may review our resolutions. Similarly, we must periodically check
progress made. In case of total failure, we must remake our resolutions. The
more time we resolve, the more there are chances of success.
10. RESOLVE TO BE READY TO ABANDON YOUR
WORLDLY AIMS TO HIGHER VALUES AND THINGS IN LIFE: Sacrifice all your
resolutions regarding worldly progress to higher things in life. For love
forsake everything. For family forsake everything. Our New Year Resolutions
should not be unadulterated to selfishness and self-centric life.
The second set of New Year Resolutions should
be totally different from the first set which deals with the bigger general
questions of life. The second set is for personal life and the goals set for
it. However, most of the people will ignore to formulate the first set.
Therefore, I will include some overlapping goals in the second set so that it
in itself is complete without the first set.
Here is the second set of goals:
1. RESOLVE TO START YOGA OR WALKING/JOGGING IN
THE MORNING: Yoga is more than physical exercise. It is for physical, mental
and spiritual development and a way of life. With yoga peace of mind,
happiness, success, health will follow automatically. Our way of life and
dietary habits will change drastically. Morning walking/jogging is the easiest
yet very beneficial physical activity and it is generally easy to stick to this
routine as in the morning there is hardly any distractions/engagements. One
could combine both yoga and morning walking/jogging or set, for example, three
days for yoga and three days for walking/jogging. One day rest is recommended.
Of course, these activities can be done in the evening also.
2. RESOLVE TO START SOME OUTDOOR GAME/SPORT:
Outdoor games/sports are easy to follow than exercise routine like gym etc. One
enjoys games/sports and if part of a partnership/team one is bound to be
regular. Any game/sport is good depending on your personal choice. Apart from
playing game/sport, be generally active during the day.
3. RESOLVE TO EAT BALANCE AND NUTRITIVE DIET:
Enjoyment of food is a matter of habit. We enjoy food eating which we have
grown up. Variety is also enjoyed. Junk food can be enjoyed only occasionally.
One can not, and of course, should not eat junk food regularly. If one becomes
health conscious food habits automatically improve.
4. RESOLVE TO DEVOTE MAXIMUM TIME AND EFFORT
TO YOUR SINGLE OVERARCHING PASSION: This is the main goal and aim of making New
Year Resolutions. What do you want to do specially in life apart from eating,
drinking, and be merry and working hard and earning money? Is there a writer,
painter, or musician within you desperately trying to express him/her? Don't
commit feticide. Resolve here that you will write ten pages of your novel daily
or you will write your novel this year. Happy New Year Wallpapers 2020
5. RESOLVE TO ORGANIZE YOUR THOUGHTS, PLANS,
COMPUTER AND HOUSEHOLD: Disorganization is the thief of time and energy. One
wastes lots of energy in finding information and things if one is disorganized
and works in haphazard way. Resolve to organize your life and things.
6. RESOLVE TO TIME MANAGEMENT: Though time is
the most precious commodity in the world, most of us do not manage it properly.
Are you wasting too much time in activities which are not related to your New
Year Resolutions? Is newspaper, TV, or email/internet wasting too much of your
time? Are you bogged down with the small issues of life never finding time for
bigger and really important issues of your life.
7. RESOLVE TO BE ON TOP OF YOUR
OFFICE/EMPLOYMENT WORK AND RESPONSIBILITIES AND MAINTAIN GOOD RELATIONS WITH
YOUR BOSS AND COLLEAGUES: Generally office does not find a prominent spot in
our New Year Resolutions. It is, in most cases, because in most work places
just doing what is required is enough. In bureaucratic set up promotions and
salary increases are time bound rather than efficiency bound. Office life
becomes important only for those working in private sector where efficiency is
demanded and rewarded. However, both in public and private sector not being
able to cope with one's work and colleagues creates great tension and may not
be good for one's health and personal goals.
8. RESOLVE TO VALUE HAPPINESS, HEALTH, FAMILY
AND FRIENDS MORE THAN MONETARY CONSIDERATIONS: New Year Resolutions are
generally for success. That is OK. However, don't make monetary gains the only
measure of success. Be after success but at the same time don't sacrifice your
happiness, health, family and friends on the altar of success. A fine balance
is to be kept. On the other hand don't blame your family and friends for your
failure or make them scapegoat. Here you should also be willing and ready to
help others, especially the needy and poor. The more you are successful, the
more you have a responsibility towards them.
9. RESOLVE TO WRITE DOWN YOUR NEW YEAR
RESOLUTIONS: A written thing is a commitment. If you write down your
resolutions you commit to them. In writing you organize your thoughts and
decide your priorities. You can refer to them time and again. Write them in
your diary, write them in your Notes in your computer or desktop so that they
are instantly available.
10. RESOLVE TO MEASURE YOUR PROGRESS OR
ADHERENCE PERIODICALLY AND DON'T BE DISCOURAGED: This is very important. Making
New Year Resolution is one thing, following them another. Measure your progress
and adherence periodically. Revise your resolutions, if needed. Recommit
yourself. Don't be discouraged if you fail. Making New Year Resolutions and
trying is better than not making them at all. Don't develop the mentality of all
or nothing. Follow your New Year Resolutions to whatever extent you can.
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